What can I say about the chick who started all this? Well, she's sharp as a whip, unafraid of controversy, erudite, creative, extremely organized, and loyal to her friends. In fact, Myrna values her friendships more than anyone I know - which is why this Wagner site and the Wagner 75-80 reunions are so popular and still going strong. So, my kudos to you, girlfriend! Read on for Myrna's Wagner memories.....
What was your first impression of Clark and Wagner? Before Nina took over the job of keeping this website fresh, I posted all kinds of stuff, so I was hesitant to fill out this questionnaire for fear I’d be redundant. But knowing firsthand what a tough job Nina has to try to get material for the website – I’ll do it, hopefully coming up with stuff I hadn’t written previously.
We’ll start with Clark. Unlike most Wagnerites, I didn’t “land” at Clark. I was already in the P.I., so I was instead “driven” into Clark through the Main Gate in 1969 when I was registered at Virgil I. Grissom by my aunt, Rose Hepner (then Nickelsen), and her then husband. What struck me was how clean and perfectly manicured everything was. I froze the first day of school since I’d never before been in an air-conditioned room. I was also struck by the ice cold single serve cartons of milk that were delivered to the classrooms just before lunch. I’d also never before seen a playground.
My introduction to Wagner High came after only one year (my first) in the U.S. Pam Grice Hogan argues with me about whether or not I was ever really shy, but I was so shy that little registered from my freshman year. I wanted to be invisible that year because all the other girls were fully developed, while I still looked like a pre-pubescent girl (some would argue that’s still the case).
What surprised you the most about the Philippines? What did you like best about living there? Nothing surprised me about the Philippines until 1986 when, after 10 years of being in the U.S., I went to spend Christmas with family. It was on that trip that I realized how memory can differ from reality, which I found to be rather stressful. It took me two weeks to get over the culture shock when nothing should have been surprising. John, on the other hand, had no expectations and thus enjoyed the experience from day one. What I loved about being at Clark during the 1976-77 school year was the time I spent with friends.
Did you really miss anything from the States and if so, what? There wasn’t really much for me to miss because prior to the 1976-77 school year, I’d really only lived in the U.S. for two years (8th grade, 10th grade). What I missed most were my two friends from San Antonio and the ability to babysit for money. (Who needed a babysitter when everyone had housegirls?) That was about it.
Who were your good buddies? Gosh – having spent most of my school years at Clark makes this a tough question. Listing only those who became Wagnerites, in the 4th grade, I was friends with Suzette Fisherman. In the 5th grade, Pam Grice Hogan became “my best friend forever.” In the 6th grade, it was Heidi Young Johnsen; she and I, along with two others formed the “Groovy Girls Club” with weekly 10 cent dues. 7th grade – after Pam left, I mostly hung out with Gina Crynes Burges. In 9th grade, Pam started having boyfriends, so she was always occupied. Heidi, by then, had joined God Squad and thus had a completely different set of friends. Nancy Hogue and I spent countless Saturdays riding our bikes from Plaridel and circle the base. We’d go up the hill from WHS, circle past the golf course to the BX, sometimes ride to the stables – then back off base. It was a great way to kill an entire day. Later that first year at Wagner, I became friends with Karen Trevino, Teresa Teator, Beth Lamoreaux, Gabe Montes, and Gary Miller.
In 11th grade, I spent a lot of time with Karen, Teresa, Liz Wilson, Cindy Weir, Pam Grice, Larry Jones, Mike Smith, Brad Muhr, and David Wilson. John Ward also managed to always be around – maybe because he lived a house or two down from the Trevinos. I also spent a lot of time with Julie Overby, Leslie Gilchrist, Joni Humphreys, Susan Corey, Julia Sutherland, Tish Wrentmore, Julie Muhr, and later, Gigi Hensley, and John Aylward.
That same year, I, along with Teresa and Karen, briefly joined the Catholic Youth Group just so I could go on a trip to Corregidor with Tina Villareal, Bridget Kitson, Pam, and the Cubellos. Pam was mortified that I quit the group immediately after the trip. Teresa and Karen stuck around a little longer because they didn’t want to be as obviously opportunistic as I had been. So during my junior year, with whom I hung out depended largely on what I was doing. There were so many people to like at Wagner!
Where did you hang out? When I was doing “bad girl” stuff such as underage drinking, it was at Kahuna’s Hut – usually with Gigi, Julie, or Joni. When I was hanging out at the Bowling Alley to see who was there, I was with Karen, Teresa, Liz, Pam, and Cindy. When we were hanging out as a group that often included the guys – even slumber parties – it was usually at my house. The other places I’d frequent with different people were Vertigo’s, Italian Village, and the Bobbitt & Kelly Theaters.
Who was your favorite teacher/class? Gene Edgerly’s speech class was a hoot! We had seriously rowdy people in that group – Mike Smith, John Ward, BT Uptmor, Rob Welsh, Tammy Tapman, Pam Grice, etc. We were constantly laughing. No one was spared from good old-fashioned ribbing after every speech. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that we all looked forward to that class. I also loved Byron Wood’s biology blue class – so much so that in the 11th grade, I was one of 4-6 students in his advanced biology class.
And I loved Vern Harmelink and his journalism class, even despite the regular all-nighters at Mepa Press that we endured every two weeks to produce the 12-14 page Falcon Crier. I loved that class so much that not only did I go on to major in journalism, but I can also still name most of the 13 who worked on that paper with me despite it being so many years ago: Mike Smith, Larry Jones, Craig Young, Peter Shusterman, John Aylward, Debbie Petrizzi, Pam Grice, Brad Gammons, Betsy Irwin, Robert Gonzalo, and Sam Larioza.
And finally, I think my love of world history was sparked by Dick Saddlemire's history class during my freshman year. I also took a psych class from Pat Saddlemire, and I remain fascinated with the subject to this day.
Did you have a part time job - what was it? I had a PVOT job the summer after my freshman year. I worked at the hospital, weighing active duty personnel. I was offered bribes on a regular basis to record a lower number than what registered on the scale.
Did you have a crush on anyone? I’ve answered this before – so I’ll skip this one.
Have you become closer to a Wagnerite that you didn't know well in high school because of a reunion? The friendships I’ve made or rekindled through the reunions have been my rewards for all the trouble and work of putting them together. Rekindling is to be expected, but there are people in my life now who would be absent were it not for the reunions. Through the earlier reunions, I’ve become really good friends with Kim Wrentmore, Travis Wallington, Josie Tan, Gene Edgerly, Byron Wood, and Mary Billett (Denver) – none of whom I knew at all at Wagner. I also became buddies with B.T. Uptmor and Dake Vahovich.
Through the San Diego reunion, I’ve formed close friendships with Mark Anderson, Ed Welch, Nina Pierce, and Yolanda Fisherman. I’m also enjoying getting to know and forming friendships with Judy Seals, Cindy Fisher, Antoine Holmes, Joey Montes, Chrys Atwater, Jason Roosma, and Elin Pierce.
It’s worth noting that I really disliked Ed and Mary during high school – obviously for no good reason. The point of noting this is that I’ve learned through the reunions that with a little effort and openness, forming close friendships with people we knew only by name or perhaps didn’t even like in high school is not only possible, but it’s also a process that occurs at breakneck speed because of the shared Wagner experience. These friendships have been possible, in part, because I have one rule when I attend these reunions: spend very little time with friends who are already deeply embedded in my life. After San Diego, for example, Karen Trevino, who’s practically a sister, noted that I spent maybe five minutes with her. She was right, but I figured that since we talk at least once a week (often more), it seemed silly to spend all my time with her at the reunion. I knew that soon after we’d each get home, we’d be on the phone rehashing what we each did with others.
So while it may sound like a strange rule, I’ve found that it’s the only way that new friendships can form at the Wagner 75-80 reunions. Oh – and then follow up. Stay in touch. Phone calls and emails are cheap. So next time, I strongly advise “reaching out and touching someone.” I promise that if you do, the next time you’re asked this question, you will end up listing your new friends.
Do you think your experience living overseas made you a better person? Again, this question is not exactly applicable to me since I am basically an immigrant who didn’t come to the U.S. or become a citizen until age 13. What I do know for certain is that I am a better person for having been fortunate to have had certain friends in my life, a good number of whom I either befriended at Wagner or through the reunions. (To read Myrna's After Wagner story click here).
Pictures: #1 - Myrna's Junior Pic #2 - Myrna with fellow members of the Mepa Press crew in '78 - Debbie Petrizzi, Mike MacIver & Brad Gammons #3 - 78'ers Brad Muhr, Myrna & Mike Smith in 1977 #4 - Larry Jones & Myrna in 1988 #5 - Myrna & Clarissa Esquivel '80 in 1983 (Myrna didn't meet Clarissa until living in Texas & then introduced her to her husband!) #6 - At the San Diego reunion in 2006 with hubby John and other members of the class of 78 - Leslie Gilchrist , John Ward, and Cindy & Patti Kuehling.
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