Recently, I sent a mini-survey to those in the classes of '75 & '76 (that I had email addresses for) on the subject of Turning the Big "5-0". Since it's such a big milestone, and we've either reached it or are closing on it, I felt that it would be a great subject for the Wagner website. Many sent back replies (email us if you'd like to participate) and I found them funny, poignant and insightful. So without further ado, here's my first respondent, and an extraordinary woman - Judy Seals Baker!
1. Have you turned 50 yet, and if so, was it a big deal?
Not yet... but the day is fast approaching
2. If you're going to turn 50 this year, is it a big deal to you?
You bet! We are going to celebrate with a huge b-day bash.... IF we can pull it together in time.
3. Was turning 30 or 40 more significant?
Not really. It felt like just another birthday.
4. Have you re-evaluated your life, your dreams, goals, or accomplishments in the past few years?
Definitely! But unfortunately, I cannot go back in time and change the things I wish I had done differently. I have reached a point in my life and in my job that I can take time to be involved in voluntary work in the community. I enjoy giving my time once a week for a literacy project to help a child in need that extra boost. I recently addressed my daughter's student body during "unique" week. It was fun and now I have about a thousand new little friends! If I changed the life of one child and how he or she will view others who are different, it was well worth my time.
5. If so, are you happy with your life so far?
I am who I am and where I am today because of who and where I was yesterday. I am definitely happy with who I am today. Getting here is a different story, but all is well that ends well.
6. Do you want to do anything different with the second half of your life?
I am doing it! I quit smoking 10 years ago, changed my diet, and I am trying to maintain a much healthier lifestyle so I will be here for many years to come. Now if I can just find the time to make it to the gym everyday, I would be happier.
7. Are you taking up any new hobbies or interests?
With working full time, serving on the board of a charitable organization, on the advisory board of a new specialty medical clinic, leading a mom's time out group once a month, and being the mother of an energetic 7-year old... I think for the moment, my plate is full.
8. Are friendships more important now?
Definitely! But instead of one very close friend, I have several very good friends that I can call upon in a time of need, or for fun.
9. Are you where you thought you would be at this age?
If you mean where I thought I would be when I was 18 and thinking about my future -- no. But I am glad where I am today.
10. Are you amazed that the years have flown by and we are now our parent's age?
I am sad that the years have flown by and I am now my parents age. If there is one thing I could wish for and receive, it would definitely be another 50 years feeling as young and healthy, capable and independent, as I am today.
11. If your kids are out of the house, are you doing different things, spending more time on yourself?
We have a 17 year old who will enter the honors program at Alabama next fall and a 7 year old. So, no, we are not spending more time on ourselves.
12. Do you think expectations for "50-somethings" are different than what they were when we were in high school? Do you think that 50 is the new 40?
I don't know what expectations are for "50-somethings." I try not to have too many expectations anymore, and I don't place a whole lot of stock in what others have to say or expect these days. I think I gave that up in my thirties when I learned that expectations can cause a feeling of being let down or sense of failure. Is 50 the new 40? Maybe so. I have not really thought about it.
Additional comments: 50 is a great place to be, and I can't wait for the next 50 years of my life to unfold! I just hope I can keep up with my youngster for many, MANY years!
Picture: Lisa Roach '76, Judy Seals '76 & Lynn Eby '76 on the dinner cruise at the San Diego Reunion. To check out Judy's photo album on the WHOA site click here.
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